Monday Manners: Rule #91 | Top-off and Free Wine Etiquette
Rule #91: Top-off and Free Wine Etiquette
If the party dining or drinking is bigger than one person, you cannot top off or refill one person's glass of wine and not anyone else's. I don't care if he is your priest, your shrink, or your boyfriend. It's rude, and your motive could be misinterpreted. If you know the guy so well that you want to extend that kind gesture, wait until he comes in alone to give out the freebie.